Greg, when it comes to automotive electrical work my skills are right at the level with a box of nails so I'm not offering solutions but just want to share the problem I encountered two years ago while on a six week trip through Alaska and Canada. My 2005 Toyota Tundra was factory wired with a tow package and we were pulling a 1999 21T, running the refrigerator off the electrical while in transit. Two weeks into our trip and on a rainy day in Southern Alaska, we were ready to leave a National Park campground and the trailer battery was dead, so we could not lower the trailer. I unhooked the truck, turned it around to jump the trailer battery and we still could not lower the top. Read through the owners manual which indicated there was an in-line fuse under a bench seat. Looked, it was not there, but did find it in the battery compartment. After a trip to a distant service station for a fuse, we got the trailer lowered and drove into Anchorage and had the trailer battery replaced, which was quite old. The remaining four weeks we continued to have problems with a dead trailer battery when we pulled into a campground. It wasn't until we returned home and my son started checking the electrical and called my attention to a 30 amp fuse under the hood of the truck which was blown. Naturally, that fuse was the one that would have allowed the truck battery to charge the trailer battery while we were in transit. Like I said, I'm right there like a box of nails, but if your Tahoe was factory wired with a tow package, check your truck fuse box to see what size of fuse you have. And no, I do not know why my fuse blew.
2005 Toyota Tundra V-8
1999 21T
now 2705 T