Seems you can either grab your measuring tape and head to one of the big box stores, or do an internet search at a site that lets you filter your search based on faucet specifications, like this website:
www.faucetdirect.com/kitchen-faucets/c19
This site lets you search for many parameters, including spout height (see filtering options on the left of the screen). For instance, this site has over 300 faucets that have spout height of less than 6 inches. I'm sure you'll find some with the spray handle, too. Be sure to get the correct hole spacing for the faucet.
Get the right faucet and leave your cabinet intact......just my 2 cents!