Thanks, Carol. I've typed this twice and it's been lost twice so this time I'm typing and saving before posting.
We did have an 85 or 86 21' HiLo with swing down bed option. Don't know what it weighed as we didn't have a scale nearby like we do now. We towed it across the country several times, once with our 1980 Mercury Marquis wagon V-8 with the factory tow package. Think the towing capacity was around 5500 or 6000 pounds. Like Carol said, the rear bearings went out and ruined the axle. Had to get a new one; fortunately there was a Ford dealer across from the Maine visitor center. We later towed it with a Chevy Astro Van which also had the towing package and I believe a 6000 tow capacity. The van's transmission had to be replaced twice, under warranty. In both cases I don't know whether any of the TV or trailer weight ratings were exceeded. In fact, other than the tongue weight being checked with the Sherline scale at the time, I don't think we ever checked anything.
So now, with that history and so much information on the internet highway, and two truck scales within a couple miles of us, I've become almost paranoid about the whole weight issue.
We are towing the 2207T with a 2010 Tacoma Sport, 4-door, short bed, V-6 with factory tow package. Weight stats:
GVWR - 5450
GCWR - 11,100
GAWRF - 2755, GAWRR - 3110
Tongue rating - 650
CCC - never exceed 1200 pounds (passengers, cargo, tongue weight)
HiLo weight stats:
GVWR - 5500
GAWR - 3500 each axle
Current tongue weight - 550 (Sherline scale)
CCC is 1249 pounds
So as you see, the combined GVWR of truck and trailer is 10,950 which is below my GCWR. We towed the trailer to the storage yard today and I stopped by the scale to check the weights. Truck weight was 5450, 2400 on front axle and 2950 on the rear. That was with a half tank of gas, two passengers, about 50 pounds of extra cargo, and the tongue weight. I didn't get an accurate trailer weight as a dump truck was waiting for me to move; the scale read 3850 when I drove across but that is lower than the trailer's sticker weight (UVW) of 3912.
So now I know what I can and cannot do. When I weighed the truck by itself several months ago, it came in at 4550 with quarter tank of gas and one passenger. When I returned with the trailer, the weight jumped to 5300 indicating a 750 tongue weight which it was when I checked with the Sherline at home.
I traded my 30 pound propane tanks with my son-in-law for two 20 pound tanks relocated some weight from under the front bed (ours is one of the few 22T models with a full bed up front and storage area under it) to try and lower the tongue weight. Somehow I've managed to do that.
For those following this thread, as you can see it pays to have the weight numbers for your TV and trailer. When I next pull it out of storage I'm going to run it by the scales again with a full tank of gas. With some of my numbers being close to the ratings, it doesn't leave much room before going over the limit. Which makes one wonder as to how many setups out there are within limits. I'm currently thinking of the guy towing what looked to be about a 25' or so trailer with his Ram 2500, doing 70+ MPH on I-5, all the while fish-tailing.
Anyway, check your stickers (driver's door jam for TV; outside left front and inside the door area for trailer) and find a scale. Happy Trails.